You're not getting any younger you know.

Ooh, exciting! My first nasty message on my blog! Now I KNOW I'm big time! :D


So, here someone's comment on my lastest post "Skates Required."


So do you enjoy being alone? Because of the road you're going down, quickly. You may think you're better than everyone but there's a chance you are not. A good chance.

You shouldn't be so picky as to condemn yourself to a life of loneliness.

Also get away from OK zcupid and meet some real people in the flesh. Over or under 40! you're not getting any younger you know.

I'm sorry. When did I say I was better than anybody? Oohh! Was it when I did not agree to have sex with someone I was not physically or emotionally attracted to? How uppity of me.

"Do I enjoy being alone?" I enjoy my life for the most part. Right now I am not dating anybody. So, I suppose I do enjoy being alone. Would I like to meet someone who I respect, admire, think is funny smart, and attractive? Yes. That would be nice. That's why I am on okc. In the meantime, would I rather be alone than with someone who I'm not that into or who is not that into me? Yes. I would much rather be alone. I've dated someone who was not that into me before. It sucks! He emotionally jerked me around. I try to be more compassionate than that.

Do people I meet from okc "in the flesh" not count as "real"? I need more details on your definition of "real people."

Lastly, my favorite: I'm "not getting any younger." :> This fills me with joy. The goto dig at every woman in Western-freakin' civilization. CALL HER OLD. Niiiiiiiice. Classy. You're right. My most attractive years are far behind me. I am getting older and less physically attractive day by day. Somedays this makes me sad. Somedays I look in the mirror and think "God, I am old and ugly and no one will ever love me." Somedays I look in the mirror and think I'm pretty fly. Good thing I don't derive my only sense of worth and value from my physical appearance or else I'd be a bigger emotional wreck than I already am!

Well, I cannot control my aging process. I can only control my actions and decisions. I choose to go on dates with people I think I have a genuine interest in and fuck those I want to. I expect the same treatment. I think this is more likely to yield my desired dating results: find someone I share mutual affection, respect, and desire for. But, I could be wrong. Wouldn't be the first time.